Dear BDSM Exchange Author
May. 27th, 2023 06:40 pmThank you so much for agreeing to write for me. I’m excited to see what you come up with.
A few general notes first: please do not feel constrained by the selected freeforms. My short list was 83 freeforms, so I had to eliminate a lot of things. If it’s not in my DNWs and you feel like it completes the free forms on the request, please include them. I’m not going to copy-paste them into the letter in the interest of space. For fandoms with multiple pairings requested, it will be pretty obvious which freeforms don’t fit with which pairings (i.e. throuple freeform with a twosome). I’m not going to get super specific on what I want the story to contain, but will give some scenario ideas. It’s been so long since I’ve dabbled in writing anything with kink, I don’t want to box anyone in by being way too specific.
If the pairing doesn’t designate dom vs. sub, I truly don’t care which way you go. I’m also good with making everyone switches, even when the prompt does designate dom vs. sub.
I’ve selected both ratings options, so whether or not smut is included is up to you. I’m good either way. Kink negotiation can be assumed unless you’re using the consensual non-consent freeform, in which case I would prefer that the kink negotiation be a part of the fic.
SFW DNWs: on screen-death of any character, permanent death of a major character, angsty endings
NSFW DNWs: non-con, body fluids not meant to be involved in sex, loss of consciousness during sex, ignoring safe words, not having safe words
NSFW Grey Area: any dub-con should tie into the consensual non-consent tag. If you go this route, please include the kink negotiation.
( fandom specific under the cut )
A few general notes first: please do not feel constrained by the selected freeforms. My short list was 83 freeforms, so I had to eliminate a lot of things. If it’s not in my DNWs and you feel like it completes the free forms on the request, please include them. I’m not going to copy-paste them into the letter in the interest of space. For fandoms with multiple pairings requested, it will be pretty obvious which freeforms don’t fit with which pairings (i.e. throuple freeform with a twosome). I’m not going to get super specific on what I want the story to contain, but will give some scenario ideas. It’s been so long since I’ve dabbled in writing anything with kink, I don’t want to box anyone in by being way too specific.
If the pairing doesn’t designate dom vs. sub, I truly don’t care which way you go. I’m also good with making everyone switches, even when the prompt does designate dom vs. sub.
I’ve selected both ratings options, so whether or not smut is included is up to you. I’m good either way. Kink negotiation can be assumed unless you’re using the consensual non-consent freeform, in which case I would prefer that the kink negotiation be a part of the fic.
SFW DNWs: on screen-death of any character, permanent death of a major character, angsty endings
NSFW DNWs: non-con, body fluids not meant to be involved in sex, loss of consciousness during sex, ignoring safe words, not having safe words
NSFW Grey Area: any dub-con should tie into the consensual non-consent tag. If you go this route, please include the kink negotiation.
( fandom specific under the cut )